Zonar Healing Energy Centre

LOVE.
What is Love? We ask ourselves this question all of our lives, as babies, we accept that we are loved and loveable, until something called doubt shifts into our minds, doubt born of nurturing needs not met, we begin to think that we are lacking something, yet do not know what it could possibly be.
Did I do something wrong? Did I ? Did I ? so many questions, and in the negative, a word said off hand, a tone used in being spoken too, a tone that is harsh, and the thought comes… there something wrong with me, I am no longer wanted, I am in the way, Nobody wants me, Nobody loves me.
It has to be me that is somehow wrong, Everybody else is Perfect, and I'm not perfect, I don't know why, yet something is wrong with me, and as I don't know why, then that means I must be stupid.
So not only am I not loveable and loved, I am also stupid.
The Mind of the child, so trusting, questioning and needy, seeing everything as meaning something about themselves, and believing there own thoughts and emotions to be the truth, they cannot see the bigger picture, and how other peoples views are not necessarily anything about them, that people are saying and doing things from their thoughts and emotions in accordance with what is happening in their own lives and are often unaware of how, what they are saying and doing affects others and even cause lifelong un-resourceful believes & programs to form, thus bringing pain and suffering until those believes and programs are changed, their meanings altered to bring Self Love and Self Empowerment.




Love in all relationships, is being compassionate and kind in our words and our deeds, speaking from the heart, with tones that are gentle, resonant and in truth.
When Thoughts assail us, and give rise to Emotions, and our Emotions would have us react, speaking harshly and in anger (without just cause), know then, that within the Mind, Emotion &, Body lay Patterns and Programs formed from believes and meanings given to events that happened in life, and that these patterns and programs have led to the anger, frustration etc.




Know that these Patterns & Programs are changeable, from the un-resourceful and disempowered, to the resourceful and empowered, all things have a positive intent for your learning.